This is a GREAT video that I found by Master Pick-up Artist JDog, that is totally, totally worth watching! This video deals with self-esteem, masculinity, and increasing Sexual Tension with a woman. It is a bit long, but it is worth watching. JDog really drives home the importance of Great Self-Esteem as an essential component for attracting beautiful women.  I would also do a Google search for other videos featuring JDog, he has some great videos out there that are high quality as well!