Using Kino (touching a girl while talking to her) with women should be the #1 way to demonstrate to a girl how you are different than other guys around her who are too scared of her beauty to even speak to her, much less touch her like she was a lost-long lover of yours.

But by gradually turning up the amount of Kino you are creating with a woman, the more you will be able to escalate her sexual excitement levels, so in this article I will tell you exactly how to increase your Kino skills and not scare the girl so much that she will run away from you.

When you first start talking to a girl, you should immediately touch her lightly on the arm when you are making a point about something or she tells you something in which you can show her that you care about what she said to you on a deeper level. Then you should move closer to her so that your leg is touching hers. And by all means, do NOT move your leg away from her. Just leave it there and see if she moves her leg away from yours first.

You can also ramp up the Kino by letting your hands “accidentally” brush up against her stomach, preferably the palms of your hands. You can do this when you are gesturing with your hands as you tell her something of great importance to you. You should also touch the small of her back and pull her closer to you while you tell her you can’t hear her that well. All of these smaller Kino touches will build up to where she will just naturally assume this is the way you act with all women, not just her, and she will allow you to go much further in the Kino game.

TIME TO REALLY TAKE CHARGE AND GO IN DIRECTLY

Since you have already demonstrated to her that you like to touch her, she is now ready to be more accepting of the type of direct touching that I wrote this article about. These types of more intimate touching techniques will help you prep the girl for the passionate kissing sessions you need to get the girl to much higher excitement levels.

These techniques work a lot better if you are sitting next to the girl at a much quieter venue than the one you approached her in, such as a loud nightclub. Take her to a lounge area where they have couches and then get really close to her. Ask her what type of shampoo she wears and then lean in and run your fingers through her hair and tell her how soft it is. If she’s wearing a necklace, lean in and examine it very closely and see if she backs away from you.

If not, move your face closer to her neck and smell her perfume while putting your hand on her leg and then slowly move up to her waist. Make sure you are giving her compliments about the way she smells, the way her hair is soft and her skin is perfect. Then just slowly lean in and start kissing her neck while your hand caresses her neck and waist. You should be able to pull her chin close to your lips and then kiss her passionately while moving your hand to the back of her neck, caressing that part of her neck as well.

If all goes perfectly as planned, this great Kino technique will turn every ‘”cold girl” into a red-hot lover within an hour’s time frame.

The term Kino is very important to understand when you are just beginning to learn seduction skills because Kino is basically the science of touching a girl while you are complimenting her on a specific quality you love about her.

Kino is primarily used as a way of escalating her to new levels of sexual excitement when you are leading her down the path of making sure she desires you as much if not more than you desire her.

Kino is a great way to never allow yourself to get in a girl’s friend zone at any time, and I would make sure it was an integral part of my initial approaches with a girl every time I make that first step if I were you.

When you first begin approaching women, look for any way possible to lightly touch her on the arm, around her elbow, just to get her attention.

This also will make her feel that you do this with all people you come into contact with, her included. Your first priority in establishing rapport and comfort with a girl is to use Kino as a way of ensuring to her that you are comfortable with her, and vice versa. The way you feel about her can directly influence the way she feels about you.

KINO IS PERFECT FOR DEVELOPING INSTANT RAPPORT

That’s why Kino goes much further in establishing an intimate relationship with a girl over any other method known in the seduction community. Try saying something like, “That’s a pretty cool ring you have there,” and immediately take that ring hand and examine it much more closely.

By holding her ring hand in your right hand, you have established to her that you have no trouble getting close to her within a few minutes of talking to her. And it also helps when you have a genuine interest in something she is wearing so you can convey that interest to her through physically touching her body without seeming like a pervert.

After you have talked to a girl for about five minutes and she has not moved away from you, nor has she removed your hand from her in any manner, it is time for you to step up the amount of Kino you are demonstrating on her.

Say something like, “You know, you really look like you could use a hug. Here,” and gradually put your arms around her hips and lightly pull her into you. If she is still resistant to you, move your arms back to your side and say, “Maybe you don’t need a hug yet, but if you’re a good girl, you might earn one.”

TIME TO WARM HER UP

You have to say this to her with a smile on your face, otherwise she might not take your insinuation to her that she has to earn a hug from you extremely well. This technique will turn even a negative reaction from her into something positive for you to use on her because she will now have to earn the next hug from you because of her bratty behavior she has shown to you be moving away from your hug.

The final step of implementing correct Kino skills with a girl you are having an initial conversation with is to escalate the location of where you are touching her. For instance, while you started touching her on her elbow, you should gradually work your way to her back shoulders, and then let your hand fall casually to her waistline.

Then you can let your hands run to her hips and let them stay there at least for 30 seconds at a time. This will allow her to think of you as a potential lover, and NOT as “just friends.”

Like anything else in life, you have to practice great Kino skills with every new approach you start with a girl, so start using this great technique today!

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We all want to attract women, and many of us are willing to go to great lengths to get results. So, it’s on this note that I decided to give the Mystery Method a try. The Mystery Method is the formula for picking up women, made popular on the reality television show called, The Pick Up Artist. I decided to give a few tricks to the trade a try.

1. “Peacocking”. This is one of the tricks to the Mystery Method and it refers to showing up at a club, in some way dressed ”different” or having elements of dress that stand out and cause attention to be placed your way. Hence the reference to a peacock. I showed up in a feather boa, large rimmed glasses, and motorcycle boots which I colored white with shoe paint. I thought the boa was a perfect, if not almost direct representation of the peacock and “peacocking”. What I found, almost immediately, withing the first 30 minutes, was that I was attracting more looks from guys than I was girls. It wasn’t that these guys were attracted to me, it’s that they seemed to want to kick my…. I was really pissing off the majority of males in the club, but it was more of a laughing type of anger. I seemed to be the butt of everyones joke and at the same time they seemed to want to pummel me. This attitude obviously drifted over to the females of the club and scored me zero points in that area. Matter fact I was in the negative, having to somehow dig myself out.

2. “Did you see the girl fight outside”? A popular opening line in the Mystery Method refers to opening up a set of people by lying about a non existent girl fight which took place outside. When I tried this I often got the response: “I’m surprised they didn’t beat your —” One time I did open up a set but was halted a moment later by “dude, whats up with the boa?”, followed with hushed laughter from the group.

While peacocking and set opener’s may have their merit to some degree, I believe at least the former can only be performed in bigger city clubs where more of a freak show environment is tolerable. In the mid west, you can easily become a target, not for female attraction, but for male aggression and ridicule!

On a recent episode of Dr. Phil, he invited the founders of Love Systems (formerly known as The Mystery Method) and Ross Jeffries (founder of Speed Seduction) to talk about their business, techniques for picking up women, and basically giving everyone an idea about what they’re about.

Dr. Phil seemed nonconfrontational, given the target demographic for his program and the fact that the episode was titled “Women Beware”, and likened learning how to meet women to the fact that women wear pushup bras, makeup, and take a lot of time to work on their appearance. If women can take steps to make themselves more attractive, then why shouldn’t guys be able to learn the same thing?

Mystery Method guys defended their method, claiming that people have to learn a good way to approach. If the way you start a conversation is boring and uncreative, then you’re likely to just get tuned out, and the girl won’t get a chance to know you. Both the women on the program said the Mystery Method techniques were really interesting and caught their attention, and they were a lot different from what they were used to hearing and being approached with (drunk dudes and sleazy guys).

Then Ross Jeffries came on and Dr. Phil seemed to be more aggressive towards him, perhaps because the image he portrays in his advertising is mysogynistic. But Jeffries has always claimed that the way to draw attention to his product is through really blunt, offensive, locker room talk, while the actual tone of the product is a lot more positive. Jeffries commented that Dr. Phil’s producers do the same thing, taking the most provocative clips from the shows to get people to watch (but this rebuttal was cut from the show). He also went on to attack the Mystery Method company, saying that they teach techniques that are destructive to woman’s self-esteem and can have negative long-term reprecussions.

In actuality, even though there’s a lot of negative press surrounding both these groups and the idea of guys learning how to pick up women, and the fact that the competiting seduction gurus often get into drawn out battles with each other, the fact is beneath all of this are just some good, common sense ideas. Both these methodologies (Mystery Method and Speed Seduction) place an emphasis on improving yourself and your lifestyle to become a more attractive person. Both place an emphasis on drawing boundaries about who you are and what kind of behaviour you’ll accept from people. The Mystery Method is based on telling interesting stories which portray attractive qualities about yourself, which is something that most cool people do anyway. I’m sure a lot of you have friends that tell the same kind of stories the first time they’re meeting new people, it’s just that they’re not really that consciously aware that they’re using the same stories over and over again. Speed Seduction, on the other hand, teaches you to learn certain patterns and phrases to make your speech more persuasive and interesting. When you look at some of the romanticists that have existed over the years, people like Casanova, you’ll find that they use the same kind of descriptive language, they just didn’t consciously try and learn and apply techniques to acquire this manner of speech. Or maybe they did?

The overall reaction of the studio audience was pretty positive, and as the show went on and the guests got a chance to explain their side of the story, they started to win over the audience. Savoy, of Mystery Method, later said that there doesn’t have to be this negative image of the seduction community. If you’ve thought about making improvements to your social skills, there’s plenty of material and information out there to help you do. You don’t have to have money, looks, or fame to get the kind of success and social life that you really want, you just have to make the decision to get out there and socialize, and now you have the tools out there to help you improve.

A lot of people ask me - Does The Mystery Method Work? If you have no confidence, it’s not worth trying stupid techniques to get females. You can read all the pickup artist stuff you want. You can imitate David Deangelo and Mystery all day, however you still won’t get girls because they’ll just know that you lack inner belief.

In order to get a lot of girls, you have to start working on self improvement. If you don’t find yourself attractive, you’ve already lost half the battle You can have all the techniques in the world and still be poor with girls because you don’t really believe in yourself. Men with no self-esteem tend to pickup bad personality traits to cover up for their massiveinsecurities. and will usually call a guy sketchy when he exposes them. Females have a sixth sense for seeing these kind of traits and they hate them.

You need to make it a must to develop personal growth. Developing self-assurance is fun. You need to work on yourself eall the time. If you don’t like something about yourself, make it your mission to change it. You are important! You only have one shot to get it right. You deserve to be picking up a lot of women. You can find the girl of your dreams. There’s no reason not to become the greatest you you can be. Begin empowering yourself starting right now and watch your life improve! Starting improving your everyday life and your love life with get better along with it.

Read more on Famoustanda.com. I’m sure most of you have heard about this new show on VH1, The Pick-up Artist. Yes?… No? Well for those of you who have, can I please get someone’s opinion on this. For those of you who haven’t a clue what I’m talking about, in a nutshell, it’s about 8 socially challenged men who pack up and head to Texas where they will all live together in hope of guidance from Eric, A.K.A “Mystery”, a “Master Pick-up Artist” and his two friends. Each week there is a different lesson to be learned by these romantic illiterates. The one with the weakest game (not that any of them had any coming into this) will be sent home after a deliberation.

Okay, great! Good for them that they’re stepping up. My problem lies here… Have you SEEN this guy, Mystery? He looks to me like a wannabe Tommy Lee who sports a hat similar to the one Pamela Anderson wore to the 1999 MTV VMA. Oh, it gets worse, that’s only when he isn’t wearing that awful thing that resembles a swimming cap. He even pairs it off with goggles! For all I know it could really be a swimming cap. His friends who take credit for being “Master Pick-up Artists” don’t look any more credible themselves. Their names “Matador” and “J-Dog” don’t help them either. I can’t understand how these 8 men can put their trust in a man who is cross dresses between Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee to help them find their Mo-Jo.

C’mon… His “entourage” go by the name of Matador and J-Dog! Matador btw looks like a foreign Jesse Katsopolis only he has NOTHING on Jesse’s hair or anything else for that matter. The only thing that stood on J-Dog (besides his unfashionable sense of fashion) was the 2 BLACK stripes on the side of his blond/ yellow set of hair. Who does that and claims to be a “Master Pick-up Artist”? I’m sorry but Mystery, Matador, J-Dog… If I ever got set up on a blind date with one of you the only thing you’d be picking up would be the tab.

Season 2 of The Pick Up Artist approaches and the pick up community awaits with baited breath, or does it?

After the excruciatingly staged first series of the program where Mystery PUA and two exceptionally strange looking individuals calling themselves Matador and J Dog schooled eight hapless AFCs on how to deliver canned openers to a series of uninterested girls, The Pick Up Artist is back. As I recall the series ended with two suspiciously good looking finalists, the lucky winner of the prestigious title of ‘Master Pick Up Artist’ being Kosmo. With a K.

It’s hard to know how much the contestants will have learned having been schooled by J Dog, whose keeerazy hairstyle resembles the finished product of a primary school art class, a far cry from the ‘rockstar look’ he claims on his website. He’s also English, and speaking from experience it is not difficult for an English person to get laid in America. You don’t need to have tight game, as opening your mouth is usually enough to extract squeals of delight and admiration from American girls.

The next purveyor of Mystery Method craft is Matador, a man for whom the word ’sleazy’ may well have been invented for. Dressed in his safety net of all black (maybe he hadn’t read Mystery PUA’s thoughts on peacocking), Matador spent most of the last series saying very little whilst standing around looking somewhat glum, similar to a spoilt fat child who’s been last to be picked for a five-a-side kickabout.

Then of course there is Mystery PUA. I couldn’t really tell if he was genuinely supportive of the people he was trying to train, or was simply using the program to boost his now sizable ego. A man who was quite possibly once thoroughly deserving of the title, The Pick Up Artist, was now resting on his laurels of fame and financial security brought to him by The Mystery Method. We saw him do very little in the way of in field demonstration, apart from in the first episode when a girl told him that she loved him, to gasps of amazement from the resident AFCs.

The fact is, the first series taught nothing about pickup, and was just another reality TV show, with any value painstakingly extracted by the powers at be. Is Mystery PUA one of the best pick up artists in the world? At one stage of his life I’m sure he was. Is the Mystery Method still of value? Yes, if taught by the right people.

So what can we expect from the second series of The Pick Up Artist? No doubt the contestants will be geekier, and more outrageously socially inadequate, a number of whom will break down in front of the camera at some point, gushing about how Mystery PUA has ‘opened their eyes’ after they’ve just introduced themselves to a girl for the first time in their lives.

Perhaps J Dog will shock us all by showing just how absurd a hairstyle can be for a man approaching middle age. Maybe Matador might actually risk drowning in his own hair gel? Who knows? I would say that I’ve got my sky plus and notebook ready in anticipation of the second series of The Pick Up Artist, but that would be a massive lie.