I think growing up as a kid and being taught not to talk to strangers or mainly your overall upbringing can play a part in this as well.
# 25 July 2010 at 1:34 pm
hiroshitakubo said:
@Mar1n29 Yeah, here he is.
# 25 July 2010 at 2:20 pm
Mar1n29 said:
Question. Is this Mystery from Neil Strauss’ book “The Game”?
# 25 July 2010 at 2:53 pm
NeverMind88888 said:
@AcousticBruce
Yes, it’s possible. If you’ve just witnessed a guy get rejected, you will be shaken up, thinking that you would never try that because of what you’ve witnessed. On the contrary, if you’re the type to hang out with very outgoing people, and watch them sarge (this is a bonus), you’ll soon be comfortable in this “outgoing” aura, and as a result, you will adopt this confidence. BUT, you have to take initiative.
# 25 July 2010 at 3:39 pm
AcousticBruce said:
I see where you are coming from. I have no idea how true or untrue this is… but men can watch another man get bashed and develop fear. So really it is still possible to get fear from watching it happen to someone else. Just another perspective.
# 25 July 2010 at 4:09 pm
Frozenyak said:
Is he suggesting that our current fear of approach is the remnant of our ancestors’ past social structures? In what way would this find it’s way into future generations’ brains? How is the process of physical “hardwiring” achieved and what is it’s physiological cause? To me it sounds like pseudo-evolutionary mixup.
# 25 July 2010 at 4:41 pm
MELLAD4 said:
@busheybushdawg but how about the guys who’ve seen it happen to that certain someone?
# 25 July 2010 at 5:29 pm
sethrpg said:
@busheybushdawg
Its actually the reverse Darwinian approach. the LIVE guys pass on their dna which HAS this gene.
# 25 July 2010 at 6:01 pm
falenangel said:
Mystery’s a Guru
# 25 July 2010 at 6:53 pm
tjello said:
he sounds like a really nice guy … thot he`d be a cocky douche with all the women he gets
# 25 July 2010 at 7:37 pm
busheybushdawg said:
Getting your head bashed in for trying to pick up a girl unfortunately does not get hard wired into your genes because dead guys have a hard time passing on their DNA.
# 25 July 2010 at 7:48 pm
paulstool said:
he has a hicky tattooed on his neck.
# 25 July 2010 at 8:34 pm
alexbadfurday said:
This fellow Mystery makes it too complicated. All you gotta do is stop caring what she thinks.
# 25 July 2010 at 9:25 pm
jslkd said:
@DanielJustinLeBlanc obviously your interested in her. I would have responded by saying: “Hey, i would love to see you later after your done with work, if your interested. If not, ill catch you next time.” That will project your interest in her.
# 25 July 2010 at 9:30 pm
TheMrMonkee said:
whats his program they watch with seasons and stuff
# 25 July 2010 at 10:00 pm
Robodisco said:
@DanielJustinLeBlanc you could have asked her for help in getting her number
# 25 July 2010 at 10:01 pm
reallysecretusername said:
@DanielJustinLeBlanc … dude she was just giving you customer service dont think so much of it.
# 25 July 2010 at 11:01 pm
mikeparker1234567 said:
i like the guy did he just land a airplane or something??
# 25 July 2010 at 11:13 pm
m3tallih0lic said:
@DanielJustinLeBlanc idk… how about something like “anything else you could help me with?… hhhmmmmm well i can’t think of anything right now…. how about you give me your number so i could get ahold of you when i come up with something”
# 25 July 2010 at 11:39 pm
DanielJustinLeBlanc said:
I was in the bank the other day and a 10/10 was cashing my check for me. She looked at me a couple of times and smiled (not being cocky but I am? good looking but don’t have much game yet) and I froze. Then she said, “Is there anything else that I can help you with today?” and I froze like a fucking pussy. What is something clever that I could have said in that situation? Thanks.
# 26 July 2010 at 12:24 am
suk329 said:
i used to think this was bullshit until i heard this specific video. he has a very good point that hesitation in selecting a mate stems from tens of thousands of years of social / civilized evolution.
# 26 July 2010 at 12:41 am
johnrainrules said:
The scary thing is I remember the Vic 20. I haven’t heard it mentioned in 25 years, and it was primitive even then. I love his books. Especially the first one. One recommendation. A lot of people follow his advice, but won’t do the training he recommends. Big mistake, like a sport you have to do the training Mystery suggests, not just try to pull a routine out of your ass.
@TheDigitalCrusader so true..
@Mar1n29 yep
I think growing up as a kid and being taught not to talk to strangers or mainly your overall upbringing can play a part in this as well.
@Mar1n29 Yeah, here he is.
Question. Is this Mystery from Neil Strauss’ book “The Game”?
@AcousticBruce
Yes, it’s possible. If you’ve just witnessed a guy get rejected, you will be shaken up, thinking that you would never try that because of what you’ve witnessed. On the contrary, if you’re the type to hang out with very outgoing people, and watch them sarge (this is a bonus), you’ll soon be comfortable in this “outgoing” aura, and as a result, you will adopt this confidence. BUT, you have to take initiative.
I see where you are coming from. I have no idea how true or untrue this is… but men can watch another man get bashed and develop fear. So really it is still possible to get fear from watching it happen to someone else. Just another perspective.
Is he suggesting that our current fear of approach is the remnant of our ancestors’ past social structures? In what way would this find it’s way into future generations’ brains? How is the process of physical “hardwiring” achieved and what is it’s physiological cause? To me it sounds like pseudo-evolutionary mixup.
@busheybushdawg but how about the guys who’ve seen it happen to that certain someone?
@busheybushdawg
Its actually the reverse Darwinian approach. the LIVE guys pass on their dna which HAS this gene.
Mystery’s a Guru
he sounds like a really nice guy … thot he`d be a cocky douche with all the women he gets
Getting your head bashed in for trying to pick up a girl unfortunately does not get hard wired into your genes because dead guys have a hard time passing on their DNA.
he has a hicky tattooed on his neck.
This fellow Mystery makes it too complicated. All you gotta do is stop caring what she thinks.
@DanielJustinLeBlanc obviously your interested in her. I would have responded by saying: “Hey, i would love to see you later after your done with work, if your interested. If not, ill catch you next time.” That will project your interest in her.
whats his program they watch with seasons and stuff
@DanielJustinLeBlanc you could have asked her for help in getting her number
@DanielJustinLeBlanc … dude she was just giving you customer service dont think so much of it.
i like the guy did he just land a airplane or something??
@DanielJustinLeBlanc idk… how about something like “anything else you could help me with?… hhhmmmmm well i can’t think of anything right now…. how about you give me your number so i could get ahold of you when i come up with something”
I was in the bank the other day and a 10/10 was cashing my check for me. She looked at me a couple of times and smiled (not being cocky but I am? good looking but don’t have much game yet) and I froze. Then she said, “Is there anything else that I can help you with today?” and I froze like a fucking pussy. What is something clever that I could have said in that situation? Thanks.
i used to think this was bullshit until i heard this specific video. he has a very good point that hesitation in selecting a mate stems from tens of thousands of years of social / civilized evolution.
The scary thing is I remember the Vic 20. I haven’t heard it mentioned in 25 years, and it was primitive even then. I love his books. Especially the first one. One recommendation. A lot of people follow his advice, but won’t do the training he recommends. Big mistake, like a sport you have to do the training Mystery suggests, not just try to pull a routine out of your ass.
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