Never buy a woman a drink. It’s logical to assume that if you buy a woman a drink at the bar that she’ll like you. After all, aren’t we supposed to like people who buy things for us? Yes, this seems logical enough, but remember – women are not logical creatures! Want to know what you’re really saying when you buy a woman a drink? I’m a sucker. I’m weak and I’m trying to buy your attention because I have nothing else better to offer.

Never offer to buy a woman a drink. Many times a woman will accept the drink and stand with you for a little while, but it’s most likely out of pity. A lot of guys have the idea that if they order her a drink and get her to stay around them for a while and drink it, then it’ll allow them enough time to charm her. This does make some sense and if you employ some of my strategies from this book once you have her in your vicinity, you do have a chance of getting her. The problem is that you have set up an uphill battle for yourself because she already thinks you are weak and a sucker.

There are many better ways to get her attention and get her to have her stay around you so don’t bother with the drink buying thing. Also, don’t buy her a drink if she asks you to. Women love free drinks and they’re usually not very shy about asking for them. Now I don’t mean that when you’re out on a date you shouldn’t buy her drinks but when first picking her up, DON’T DO IT! I know it’s hard to say no. She knows it’s hard to say no too – that’s why she’s asking you. This is also a way for her to test how much of a man you are. By giving in right away and getting her the drink, she’ll assume that you’ll give in all the time about other things too. Another reason that you shouldn’t offer to buy a woman a drink is because it’s overdone. Every other idiot at the bar has tried this approach on her for years and you don’t want to be like every other guy. If she asks you to buy her a drink, simply respond with a cocky but humorous response like, “I’m not in the habit of buying drinks for girls I’m not dating. If you play your cards right with me, maybe I’ll take you on a date and buy you some”.